What a self-absorbed bunch we
are. I am talking about us late baby boomers in our 50’s and 60’s. We think we are so important in the world, or
at least the nation and that whatever we have or want is the best. And we seem to be driving the nation down
into our own self-absorbed funk. We buy
and take more drugs, attend more self help sessions, go to more lectures and
work on self-improvement programs and insist that everyone else should do so as
well. We are the center of the universe and as soon as everyone else gets on
board, they will all be fine. At the
same time, we are incredibly insecure about what we believe, maybe that is why
we are so loud about it all. We rarely
take time to relax and think about things in a bigger sense without ourselves
and our small circle being the hub of all things. We don’t see that others are very like us now
matter how different they seem. We also
spend too much time letting others tell us what to think, drink, drive, see and
feel. We are a mess. So we buy a self-help book or go to a seminar
to feel better, but it never lasts long.
And if we truly believe, then we are so obnoxious, our friends can’t
stand us. We have become obsessed with
more, bigger and better. Our things own
us and our credit cards are maxed (unless you are one of the rich few). But we are still not happy and keep trying
to buy ourselves to a better place. And
as we buy more, move to more remote or larger places and surround ourselves
with stuff, we lose touch with our neighbors and our friends. Even if we still see them and talk to them,
we spend too much time checking our Blackberries or iphones, texting or looking for the
next big/new thing to really get in touch with ourselves or our friends and
family anymore. We use stuff and
technology as barriers between us not as bridges. We no longer listen well when
others talk, too busy thinking of what to say next. No wonder we are so unhappy.
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